Date someone who makes you feel safe. Someone you can tell your deepest secrets to and they won’t judge you. someone you trust not to give up on you when the going gets tough. Someone whose affection towards you never waver whether things are going smoothly or when he’s facing a crisis. There is no malice in his words when he talks to you, no sarcasm in his remarks, and no intention to hurt you. He won’t belittle you in your abilities. He won’t insult your looks and body. He wont use you for his selfish purposes. He strives to be the light in your life, the love in your heart and the forever you believe in. He makes the effort when it comes to you.
Date someone you can trust your heart with and who you know you can always count on. He knows you are who he’s looking for and he’s certain of his feelings for you. You are the only one he wants to know and the only girl in his heart. He kisses your tears away tenderly and encourages you to pick yourself up and try again. He heals the fragmented pieces of your heart by loving you with his whole heart.
Date someone who makes loves easy. He doesn’t play mind games with you or deceive your feelings. He doesn’t switch into a completely different person every time you see him, so much so, that you won’t know which version of him is real. He makes you forget about all the insignificant things like who should text first and to refrain from appearing too interested.
Date someone who make you believe in LOVE. not the diluted, cheapened, half-love that modern dating has us believing to be true. The kind of big love that is every bit as magical as you believe it to be. The best friend type of love when you know each other as well as you know yourself. The soulmate love when you find and choose each other to fall in love with and be together against all obstacles.
The love that comes once in a lifetime.
Via @Thoughtcatalog, Liane White.